आज की पत्नी

कुछ दिन पहले मैं एक सत्संग गयी थी. वहाँ भागवत कथा चल रही थी. सीता जी के चरित्र का गुणगान गया जा रहा था और एक अच्छी पत्नी क गुण समझाए जा रहे थे. जो सज्जन व्यक्ति प्रवचन दे रहे थे, उनका कहना था की एक अची पत्नी का कर्त्तव्य है की अपने पति का हर हाल में साथ दे, उसके लिए अपनी खुशियों का त्याग करे और अपना पत्नी धर्म हर हालत में निभाए.

परन्तु क्या अज भी हम त्रेता युग में ही  जी रहे हैं, जो आज भी ये सारी बातें हूबहू हमें वैसे ही समझाई जा रही हैं, और मानने को भी कहा जा रहा है. क्या आज और उस समय में कोई अंतर ही नहीं रह गया जो सारी बातें वैसे  क वैसे  लागू हो जायें??

आज के युग की नारी बहुत आगे बढ़ चुकी है और पुरुष के साथ कदम से कदम मिला कर चलती है। वो नाही अपना ध्यान रखना बल्कि अपने परिवार की भी देख रेख करना बखूबी जानती है।

और अब वो युग नहीं रह गया की वो अपनी खुशियों का बलिदान देगी तभी वो अपने पति को खुश रख पायेगी। उससे बखूबी पता है की केसे उससे अपनी और साथ ही साथ पति व परिवार की खुशियों और ज़रूरतों को एक ही डोर में बांधना  है।

RH FACTOR OF MARRIAGE

Yesterday I got a shocking news about my cousin’s divorce, who got married just two months ago. When I asked the reason from my grandmother, who went at her place to counsel her, she told me that her husband’s inability to produce a baby went against their relation.

On hearing this, the instant thought which came to me was that before finalizing a relation, the parents of both the would-be’ s investigate loads of things, regarding their nature, physical and mental well-being, workplace, addictive habits etc. but, what if either of them is unable to contribute healthily towards reproduction?

 Do any of Indian families research or investigate, about RH factor’s presence or absence in blood, or do they even try to research that whether both of them are able to produce a baby or not?

Logic is overpowering emotion so be logical.

LET'S SEE WHAT LIFE UNVEILS TO ME?

Life has once again exposed me to the same turmoil and confusion, which i underwent exactly an year ago. A storm of ambiguity and unpredictiblity has invaded my mind. I am in a total dilemma, what to do, and what not to do?

My course is at the verge of completion. And now i am thinking what to pursue further?

And the thing which is pinching me is what would be the perfect recipe for me to cook?

In this one year of my diploma, i lived each and every moment of my life, and to its total contrast in my graduation, i cursed me every next day, as i was not able to enjoy what i was doing. I was feeling as if my identity has totally lost, my freedom snatched, and me not able to set compatablity between me and my studies.

Now its a tough decision, because i am searching for the line in which my identity emboses and i get engulf so much in my work that i don't even realize what is happening in the outer world. I want to enjoy every moment.

With my continuous efforts lets see what life unveils to me.